Why You Should Include Your Dog in Your Wedding (And How to Do It Right!)

Weddings are about celebrating the people who mean the most to you—so why wouldn’t that include your four-legged best friend?

For so many couples, their pets are family. They’ve been there for all the big moments—so having them by your side when you say I do just makes sense.

At this incredible LGBTQ+ wedding, one of the most heartwarming details was their sweet dog, who played a special role in their celebration. From getting-ready snuggles to stealing the spotlight in portraits, their pup was an unforgettable part of their wedding day—and the photos? Absolutely priceless.

If you’re thinking about including your dog in your wedding, here’s how to make it work seamlessly, stress-free, and full of love.

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1. Why You Should Have Your Dog at Your Wedding

Let’s be real—dogs make everything better, including weddings.

They’re part of your family—why leave them out of such a special day?
They add personality and fun to your ceremony and portraits.
Photos with your pet are timeless and meaningful—you’ll cherish them forever.
They help ease wedding day nerves! There’s nothing like a happy tail wag to keep you grounded.

For this couple, their dog wasn’t just a guest—they were part of their love story. Whether sitting by their side during the ceremony or posing for portraits with their grooms, their pup added so much personality to their day.

Photography Tip: A skilled photographer will know how to work patiently and playfully with your pet to capture the best moments without stress.

2. Choosing a Photographer Who Loves & Knows How to Photograph Pets

Not every wedding photographer is comfortable with pets—but if you’re planning to include your dog, you need someone who knows how to capture their energy, personality, and sweet moments seamlessly.

When looking for a pet-friendly wedding photographer, consider:

Someone who loves animals and isn’t afraid to work with them.
A photographer with experience capturing pets—they should know how to get those perfect shots!
Someone who’s patient, flexible, and quick to capture moments before they pass.

As a photographer who adores animals, I know how to work with dogs of all energy levels—whether they’re hyper, shy, or somewhere in between. I take the time to make them feel comfortable, get their attention in fun ways, and capture natural, adorable moments that feel effortless.

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3. How to Make Having Your Dog at Your Wedding Easy & Stress-Free

Including your pet in your wedding is absolutely possible—you just need a plan.

Hire a Pet Handler or Delegate a Friend

A professional pet handler can care for your dog throughout the day, ensuring they’re happy, comfortable, and where they need to be.
A trusted friend or family member can be in charge of walks, water breaks, and making sure your pup is content.

💡 Pro Tip: If your dog tends to be anxious, have them attend only part of the wedding—like the ceremony and portraits—then head home to relax.

Dress Them Comfortably & Suitably for the Occasion

✔ A flower collar, bow tie, or bandana adds style without being uncomfortable.
✔ If they’ll be walking down the aisle, a well-fitted leash or harness is key.

💡 Pro Tip: Always do a test run with any accessories before the big day to ensure your pup is comfortable!

Have a Game Plan for Photos

✔ Bring treats or a favorite toy to keep their attention during portraits.
✔ Choose a pet-friendly venue with space for them to relax.
✔ Have a plan for where they’ll go after photos—whether it’s back home or to a pet sitter.

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4. Should Your Dog Be in Your Ceremony? Here’s How to Decide.

Not every pet is suited for a full wedding day experience. Before deciding, consider:

Temperament: Is your dog calm in crowds, or do they get easily overstimulated?
Training: Can they sit, stay, and walk on a leash without issues?
Venue Rules: Does your venue allow pets, and are there any restrictions?

💡 Best Roles for Dogs in Weddings:
🐶 Ring Bearer – Walking down the aisle (with assistance).
🐶 Guest of Honor – Sitting with the family during the ceremony.
🐶 Photo Star – Posing for portraits before heading home.

If your dog isn’t suited for the full wedding day, that’s okay! You can still include them in your engagement session, pre-wedding photos, or a special first-look moment before the ceremony.

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Your Wedding, Your Family, Your Way

Bringing your pet to your wedding isn’t just about having them there—it’s about making your day feel more like you.

For this couple, their dog wasn’t just a guest—they were a cherished part of their love story. And with a little planning and the right photographer, your furry best friend can be part of your wedding in the most seamless, stress-free way possible.

If you’re planning a wedding and can’t imagine saying "I do" without your dog by your side, I’d love to capture every joyful, tail-wagging moment for you.